Monday, March 01, 2010

Dylan having URTI

My little prince was having this nose blocked thingy ...

Poor thing...

Send him for a check on Friday (26.02.10) with Dr Wong Chin Khoon ...

Turned out to be URTI - Upper Respiratory Tract Infection!

He was given or prescribed with Iladin nose drop 0.01% - one drop / 3 times per day for 5 days, and Mucosolvon liquid 0.5mls/ 2 times per day for 5 days.

Tuesday, February 09, 2010

1 month 3 days old

Time flies...

Dylan is already 1 month 3 days old.
He is still having his full blown infant pimples and heat rashes all over his face and body.
He is able to smile spontaneous.
He is able to visually follow movements including turning his head from side to side.
He is drinking or taking 90 mls every 2 - 3 hrly of either EBM or Formula Milk Similac.
He is now fully bottle feed.

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Bye Bye CoCo

She was put for adoption. Reasons are that we have been neglecting her and also her fur issue. Yesterday a kind soul was willing to adopt her and offered her a better place for living, that's with a garden attached so that she could roam around. She promised to take good care of her.

Coco had been with us since 01.08.08 till 30.01.10.

Thank her for being there for me when I needed you. Thank you COCO!

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Thankful to my love ones

Since the day I delivered my son, I was going thru a rough time adapting the changes in my life. I was almost went into deep depression... post natal depression that is. Cried unknowingly, every evening 5-6pm struggled to go thru the motion, I was feeling very down, depressed, sky looked groomy, grey, lifeless, silence seems overwhelming, everything seems a distance... It was a scary moment, that passes through each day and me dealing it alone at home during the first week of my confinement.

Fear creeps into me. Fear of going to post natal depression, fear of hubby not having enough sleep, fear of not feeding my son well, fear of my son's jaundice might go worst, fear of changes in my life, fear of not able to cope in the night... fear!

Today, or should I say this whole week I was feeling so much better of myself. I stopped all weeping thingy and thoughts of fear. I am now more aware on how to cope and manage my son and my life. Maybe becoz, I getting used in the lifestyle and routines.

Thankfully, I have a supportive hubby and mum. I very thankful for their understanding, patience, thoughtfulness, bearing my nonsense of crying and weeping, thankful for their presence for been there for me and my son. Thank hubby, for talking out with my mum on 16/01/10 in asking her to fully commit herself in taking care of me and our baby boy. Thank you for taking over the role of purchasing the baby stuffs... like diapers, wipes, cotton, snacks, foodstuffs, taking care and managing of the finances so well, opening a saving account for our son, banking the long kept coins, staying in queue for 2 hours plus, buying my medela electric pump, working day and night despite not having enough sleep, accompanying me to take confinement food (even knowing that the foodstuffs are heaty), thank you for comforting our son when he is crying, singing to him, feeding him, changing diaper for him, most of all thank you for being there for me... THANK YOU!

Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Day 20

This is day 20. He looked so matured already!

EBM =expressed breast milk

Its been almost twenty days of direct breast feeding to my son. What's my view?

Advantage:
Building the bond between your child and you.
Cheap
Convenience
Nutritious and its better than formula milk

Disadvantage:
Your child gets addicted to your breast, suckle despite had his empty stomach filled
Engorgement
Lopsided breast
Sore nipples
Countless deprived sleep hours in late nights
Have no idea of much mls was administered to the baby

Anyways, my usual expressed milk from medela electric pump is about 30 -45ml/3h. Amazingly, after a hot herbal soup my mum brewed... it turned out to be 70ml.


Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Day 13 When you are asleep...


My little prince when he is asleep in my arms... he is 13 day old.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Deliveried my prince Dylan on the 07.01.10

Recap...

I was discharged from the hospital on 06.01.10 due to persistent undilated cervix and seems to have a false labour.

Therefore I was scheduled for a elective caesarean delivery on 07.01.10. Since I am already 2-3cm dilate at the cervix and my edd is on 07.01.10.

On 07.01.10, I was accompanied by my hubby to the Day Surgery Ward for the elective caesarean. We reached there at about before 7am. Got myself registered and checked-in for the scheduled operative arranged as a second case in main operating theatre.

Before the decision made for caesarean, wanted epidural as source of pain relief. But after speaking to the anethestist, decided for general anethesia which was a very wrong decision for my case...

Why?
- I have no control over the situation that's about to happen
- My hubby have to wittness my unconsciousness state and my opened abdominal cavity
- My baby APGAR score was not excellent initially, bluish over the two lower limbs

If given me a second chance, I would prefer epidural...

Thank God and blessings, I had given birth to a healthy boy Prince Dylan at birth weight 3.165kg witnessed by his dad Roy.

Wednesday, January 06, 2010

Finally home on 06th Jan 2010!

After all the advise, checks, assessments, and stay over at the ward 96/13, nothing happened!

I did not deliver my baby, my cervix did not further dilate!

Throughout the night in ward... I kept having irregular painful contraction over my abdominal and cervix region. Almost every hour I was awaken by the pain, but seems that it was not good enough for delivery yet.

My hubby is always supportive and always around when needed him. I was too afraid he might tired out sooner than me before our baby arrival. I wanna to go home badly, for hubby's sake and our proper rest sake. We did not rest well as nurses, healthcare workers and doctors is always popping in and out of our room! We are always disturbed! Now I finally understood why my patient always complaining not having enough rest during their hospital stay. And hospital's food sucks big time! despite having a A class stay! So my sweet hubby went out to get some real food for me MAC DONALD's!!!!! hahahaha... have not missed Mac so much in my life before!

Anyway, on 6th Jan 2010 morning, Prof Biswas popped by and assessed me and still my cervix dilation was not progressing. He advised that c-section could be possible tomorrow, if I choose to do it. I choose it! I want my baby out!

SO it will be done! Tomorrow first thing in the morning I will be scheduled for the C-section!

It all started on the 05th Jan 2010

I had contractions over my lower abdominal on 5th of Jan 2010... at 2100hrs.

Till about 0130hrs on 06th Jan 2010, I could no longer tolerate the frequency of the pain and the thought of my baby is popping out soon. Called the labour ward, and they advised me to come down if the pain wasnt tolerable...

Chatted with Janet on the phone regards about going down into the labour ward, she suspect I could be in my early labour and it would be safe if I could pop by and get strapped down with the ctg to monitor my baby.

Took her advise... zoomed down to the hospital.

At the labour ward, assessment done by the doctor had showed that my cervix was about about 2 -3 cm dilated, however it was still thick. I was strapped down on the ctg for monitoring.

My baby's heart rate was doing well about at the range of 115 to 130 bpm, for my contractions it can go from minimum of 60 to 125 threshold.

Nurses kept asking me if I needed any form of anesthesia... I option for epidural, however I didnt want it now as I am still able to tolerate the pain. So my contractions come and go irregularly! throughout the stay in the labour ward, we didnt get to sleep... we were so tired! The doc came by at 5am in morning and checked me out and I am still 2 -3 cm dilated!

Prof Biswas came by at 830 am in morning and checked, I am still only 2 -3cm dilated. He advised that as this is my first baby, I am still in early labour and my baby was still not engaged. And there is a possibly that my labour might dragged for more than 10 hours and beyond! He sounded me out that there is a possibly that I might need a c-section if baby's head is still high, or I have to wait for another one week with all these contractions! As he didnt want to me suffer, he suggested that I should think about having the c-section.

Prof Tan who is the consultant in-charge for the labour ward, came by at 1030am in morning and checked, I am only 3 cm dilated! And asked me if I needed any form of pain relieve, and I said no. So he transferred me up to ward 96/13 for further monitoring.

Prof Biswas came by again at 1130am and checked. He was agreeable with Prof Tan that I stayed on for monitoring, despite that I wanted to go home.

So I stayed...

Thursday, December 31, 2009

Week 38 + 7 days & still counting down

This is my longest wait in my life...

When is my son popping out? Everyday staying at home and wait, is no laughing matter! It almost drived me nutz. At least, if he pops out I have tons of things to do, will have sleepless nights, countless breast feeding to do, tons of cloth diaper to wash... confine at home for the longest time of my life for a month.

Cannot wait to go for my obs. review next monday. NO! Wanna my prince to pop out on his own anytime now!

Anyways ... my life have to go on rite? So decided to do something today:

1. I have booked a movie on INVICTUS by Morgan Freeman and Matt Damon today at 1050pm in Vivocity GV.

2. Will do more laundry washing today after hubby is back from work.

3. Will wash the carpet in the living area.

4. Will read up the instruction manual on the breast pump by Avent.

5. Will set up the electronic stream sterilizer for the milk bottles.

That's all folks. Happy New Year!

Our second time to a National Library

Its been the longest time ...

We last went to a National Library was in 2006, where we went to look for some information on USA maps.

Yesterday, we (my husband & myself) went to the National Library to look for:

1. Confinement recipes
2. Baby & Toddler recipes

I am expecting more of such outings with my hubby and baby in future... hee hee...

Books that I had borrowed from our National Library:

1. The complete idiot's guide to feeding your baby & toddler
2. Healthy first food for your baby
3. Baby & toddler meals for dummies
4. Organic baby & toddler cookbook
5. Confinement cookbook x2

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Not ready AT ALL

Was thinking so much about what had happened yesterday after the obs. review by Prof Biswas. After all I am not ready for a C-Section! I wanna my baby to be normal delivery and soon! However, dateline will been served by 04/01/10... by then nothing happens... C-SECTION on 05/01/10!

Monday, December 28, 2009

Week 38 + 4 days & we are still waiting patiently...

Had my obs. outpatient review today by Prof Biswas at 11 am.

Assessment:
1. Baby still in Left Occiput Transverse (LOT)
2. Baby head still NOT engaged!
3. Did a abdominal scan and showed that my baby indeed still not into the birth canal!

Outcome:
1. Will give my baby another week to engage himself into the birth canal
2. Will need to review again next week on monday 04/01/10 by Prof Biswas if by then I am still not gone into labour
3. KIV C-section on Tuesday 05/01/10.


When the baby is facing out the mother's right thigh, the baby is said to be Left Occiput Transverse (LOT). This position is half way between a posterior and anterior position. It can indicate positive movements towards an anterior position if the baby has previously been known to be posterior (in either direction).

However, with a baby in the Left Occiput Transverse (LOT) position in the pelvis labor may be a bit more painful and slower. To alleviate pain and encourage the baby to continue its rotation towards the anterior positions, you can use several positions in labor:

  • Lunging
  • Pelvic Tilts
  • Standing and Swaying
These positions encourage the baby to move into a more favorable position by opening the pelvis more and providing a bit of help in moving. Ask your doula, labor nurse, midwife or doctor for more suggestions.

Do-It - Yourself Confinement Menu

http://www.makantime.com/confine1.htm
"You don’t have to be smart to be clever"
Food Budget: Approximately S$500-S$1200

1st week

No eggs, no pig liver and no cold plain water

Breast feeding only

No eggs, no pig liver, no cold plain water, no ginger, no sesame oil and no wine (Dom) for the first two weeks.

Papaya or paw-paw is recommended as it is considered a neutral fruit and good for the quality of mother’s milk.

‘Breast-Milk Soup’ - Some recommended that several big slices of de-boned ‘Ngoh-he’ or thread-fin fish be double-boiled with papaya, smashed pepper-corns and ginger to encourage breast milk. The soup must be boiled till all the ingredients are milky and taken hot. It is said to increase the amount of colostrum which is very good for protecting the baby with anti-bodies.

Drinking water

Boiled ginger water with black sugar, red dates and dried longans for the first day or two. Don't drink too much plain water during the confinement period. For breast feeding, put less ginger.

Alternatively, the breast-feeding mother can also have boiled red-date with longans on one day and boiled black-dates with longans on another, until the end of the confinement period which is normally six weeks. Ginger can be omitted completely just in case poor mummy get sore and ‘heaty’ from all that ginger from the food and drinks.

Lean Meat:

Used only lean meat. It can either be sliced or minced. If mince meat is required, minced it at home and not at the butcher's stall.

If buying fresh chicken, refrain from buying male chicken. For the first week, use black chicken thereafter, you may choose to use normal chicken.

MENU

Day01

Flour vermicelli soup cooked with minced lean meat and pig kidney with ginger and sesame oil.

For lunch with plain rice or fried rice for dinner.

Double-boil Black Chicken Soup

Day02

Minced lean meat or sliced, fried with ginger & sesame oil.

Boil pig stomach with pepper, red dates (about 4 or 5) & ginger

Day03

Pig kidney fried with sliced or minced lean meat ginger, sesame oil and "hei mu er", 'Por-chye' or 'Pui-Leng' fried with garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Steam Whole Thread-Fin or ‘Ngoh-He’ Soup

Day04

Fry minced meat, garlic, shredded "hei mu er", ginger & sesame oil and ginger wine.

Boil pig stomach with pepper, red dates (about 4 or 5) & ginger.

Day05

Fish ('Ngoh-he'), fried or steam with ginger & sesame oil.

STIR FRY Chicken AS SOUP

Day06

Lean meat or meat balls, fried with ginger & sesame oil.

Double-boil Chicken Soup

Day07

Fried rice with lean meat, potatoes cube, green pea, garlic, ginger & sesame oil. 'Chye-sim' fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Double-boil Chicken Soup

Day08

Pig kidney fried with lean meat, ginger and sesame oil.

"He-Lan-Dao" or honey pea fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger and sesame oil.

Day09

Boil pig stomach with pepper, red dates (about 4 or 5) & ginger.

'Por-chye'or 'Pui-Leng' fried with garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Day10

Fish ('Ngoh-he'), fried or steam with ginger & sesame oil.

Potatoes, sliced and fried with lean meat, mushroom, ginger & sesame oil.

Can take hard boiled or half boiled egg every morning but only if wound recovers.

Day11

Lean meat or meat balls, fried with ginger & sesame oil.

Broccoli (steam to soften), fried with minced meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Day12

'Kah-Nah Chye' fried with n-minced meat, mushroom, ginger & sesame oil

** Ginger in smaller quantity, if still breast feeding.

STEAM FISH WITH MINCED PORK

Day13

Pig kidney fried with lean meat, ginger & sesame oil.

Cauliflower fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

DEEP FRIED CHICKEN

Day14

Black chicken fried with garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

'Por-chye'or 'Pui-Leng' fried with garlic, ginger & sesame oil,

Day15

Fish ('Ngoh-he' or 'Bai-cang') soup - can add 'Bee-hoon'.

'Heng-chye' or Spinach, fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

**From this day onwards, Can drink Dom or Yomeishu, about 114 cup before bed time. Can bathe every alternate day with Chinese herbs.

Day16

Lean meat or meat balls, fried with ginger & sesame oil.

French bean fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

** Can drink Dom or Yomeishu, about 1/4 cup afternoon or before bed time.

Day17

Pig liver fried with lean meat, ginger & sesame oil.

Broccoli fried with minced meat, garlic, mushroom, ginger & sesame oil.

Day18

Normal or Black chicken fried with garlic, mushroom, ginger & sesame oil.

'He-Lan-Dao' or honey pea or green pea, fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Day19

Boil pig stomach with pepper, red dates (about 4 or 5) & ginger.

'Kah-Nah Chye' fried with minced meat, mushroom, ginger & sesame oil.

** Ginger water, warm - for drinking. Try to take less plain water.

Day20

Fish (Ngoh-he' or Bai-cang'), fried or steam with ginger & sesame oil.

Celery & carrot fried with lean meat garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

** Drink Dom or Yomeishu, about 1/4 cup afternoon and before bed-time.

Day21

Pig kidney fried with lean meat, ginger & sesame oil.

Cauliflower fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

** Remember to take 1/2 boiled egg every morning.

Day22

Black chicken, double boiled in wine for three hours. (Use Martell of Hennessey.)

'Por-chye' fried with lean meat, onion, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Day23

Fried rice with lean meat, egg, carrot, green pea, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

'Chye-sim' fried with lean meat, mushroom, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Day24

Lean meat or meat balls, fried with ginger & sesame oil.

'Heng-chye' or Spinach, fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

** Drink Dom or Yomeishu, about 1/4 cup afternoon and before bed time.

Day25

Pig liver fried with lean meat, ginger & sesame oil.

Broccoli fried with "need meat, garlic, mushroom,, ginger & sesame oil.

Day26

Boil pig stomach with pepper, red dates (about 4 or 5) & ginger. Can add some chicken flesh.

French bean fried with carrot, lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Day27

Fish (Ngoh-he' or Bai-cang'), fried or stern with ginger & sesame Oil.

'Kah-Nah Chye' fried with minced meat, mushroom, ginger & sesame oil.

Day28

Normal or Black chicken fried with garlic, mushroom or button mushrooms, ginger & sesame oil.

Potatoes, sliced and fried with carrot, lean meat, mushroom, garlic, ginger & sesame oil.

Day29

Pig kidney fried with lean meat, ginger & sesame oil.

Long bean chop to small pieces, fried with egg.

Day30

Fried rice or 'Bee-hoon' & soup with pig liver, lean meat, egg & fish. Add sesame oil.

'Por-chye' fried with lean meat, garlic, ginger & sesame oil

** Continue to take tonic food till the 40th days.

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Week 38 + 0 days & still waiting

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

The "COUNT-TO-TEN" Fetal movement chart



This chart was given to me by the Hospital staff.

So far my prince had a kicking-good time in my womb! =P

Instructions:
This is a simple method by which the mother herself plays an important part in checking the health of her own baby. It involves counting the number of movements made by the baby during the day.

Starting at 9 o'clock in the morning, count the number of movements until the total equals to 10. Then tick the time taken to count-to-ten in the appropriate box on the graph.

For example, beginning tomorrow, start counting at 9am. If at 2.15pm the tenth count is reached, tick the square between 2pm to 2.30pm. If at 2.50pm tick the square between 2.30pm to 3pm.

If by 9pm your total is less than 10, indicate the actual number in the box below the thick black line. If you feel less than 10 movements by 6pm for the day contact your physician.

Week 37 + 6 days

Monday, December 21, 2009

Little prince's Wishlist

My little prince has almost everything... coz' both his king and queen have gotten most of the stuffs except for a few... like item no. 1 to 6. The rest of stuffs is optional...

If well-wishers would still want to get something for the little prince, would appreciate that one should look through queen's wishlist... =}

If there isnt anything thats in your mind that listed down on the wishlist... you can explore gifts for age 12 months and above... that would be something challenging to think about...

Wishlist:
1. Grobag - (something like a sleeping bag for infant)
Design: Green car blue, Humphrey's corner, Grand day out
Size: 6-18 or 18-36 months
Togs: 1 tog bag
Place to buy: Mothercare

2. Highchair - (for baby / toddler to sit comfortably at table during meals)
Brand: Strokke
Design: Trap Trapp
Acessories needed: cushion and baby set
Colour: Walnut or Cherry
Place to buy: Mothercare, Spring, Mother Works

3. Bumbo (for infant to sit in during meal time)
Brand: Bumbo
Acessories needed: tray
Colour: Aqua, green, yellow, or purple
Place to buy: Mothercare, Mother Works, Baby Kingdom, Baby Hypermart

4. Safety gate (to prevent child from escaping from one place to another)
Brand: no preference
Others: Must be a pressure fix gates, NOT wall fix gates. Wooden preferred. Walk through safety swing gate with triple locking system
Colour: Walnut or cherry
Place to buy: Mothercare, Mother Works, Baby Kingdom, Baby Hypermart

5. Cash

6. Vouchers
Store: Ikea, Mothercare, NTUC, Coldstorage, Toys'r us

7. Humidifer
Brand: no preference
Size: Small (estimate size forearm length height)
Others: Remote control, timer, humidistat (the status of the humidification level in the room or output)
Place to buy: Home-fix, Best Denki, Courts

8. Air Purifiers
Brand: no preference
Size: small (estimate sie abt. forarm length height)
Others: Plasma + UV + HEPA filter, must be QUIET
Place to buy: Mothercare, Home-fix, Best Denki, Courts

9. Digital dual purpose bath and room temperature monitor
Brand: no preference
Size: small
Place to buy: Mothercare, Spring

10. Bath toys (the ones that baby play during bathing time)
Brand: no preference
Others: prefer to have the toys and a drying bag that can be hang to come along with it

11. Toys (the ones that child loves)
Brand: no preference
Others: prefer to have toys from 12 months onwards

Day 11 of my rest...

One word BORED!